I totally agree with you and when we are dealing with our older loved ones we that must be respectful and take time to understand… if we continue to live we will also be in the same or similar situation.  I think as long as we keep that foremost in our minds we will be more generous in our responsibilities of our elders. Iris ?  I went through this with my grandmother who died at 88 and I still miss our fussing and laughing together.  My mother died at 34 and I was 16, so I did not get to see her age. There is so much I’ve missed. Amy ? My Godmother is 81 and very feisty but her body is turning on…

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